My “best friend” and I have been through a lot together in the past 6 months. After her parents found out she snuck a boy in they pulled her out of school started online schooling her and she was only allowed to see me cause her parents thought the rest of her friends Were bad influences. A few weeks ago I came to the realization that we were too close like everything that happened in her life somehow consumed me too. I realized this was toxic and draining to me, I realized that to this day she still acts like it’s all the guy who she’s snuck ins fault for her getting in trouble and stuff. She just keeps playing the victim but it’s just as much hers as it is his fault. The guy she snuck in had been asking her for a year to hook up and after they did she was surprised that he didn’t want a relationship or anything. Like he made it clear from the start what he wanted and she was just being dumb. on top of it recently she’s been vaping and getting high a lot more. All of my close friends except her don’t vape or anything and I wanna keep it that way cause I’m worried she's gonna get me addicted. I don’t want to hang out with her anymore and I’m purposely drifting from her but like she still considers me her best friend and I don’t want to tell explain to her that I don’t wanna stay friends with her cause that would just cause unnecessary drama.